Culture Club – Do You Really Want To Hurt Me

“Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” is a song by the British new wave band Culture Club, fronted by lead singer Boy George. Released on September 6, 1982 as the third single from the group’s platinum-selling debut album, “Kissing to Be Clever”, it became one of their most iconic and successful songs.

The song’s lyrics explore themes of love, heartbreak, and vulnerability. It speaks to the pain caused by a tumultuous romantic relationship and the longing for understanding and acceptance. The chorus, with its poignant question “Do you really want to hurt me?” encapsulates the emotional core of the song. Musically, “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” features a blend of reggae, pop, and soul influences, characterized by its laid-back groove, melodic hooks, and Boy George’s distinctive vocals. The song’s unique sound helped Culture Club stand out in the early 1980s music scene and contributed to their widespread popularity.

Upon its release, “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” achieved commercial success, topping the charts in multiple countries, including the UK, Australia, and Germany. It also performed well internationally, reaching the #2n in the United States.

The song’s accompanying music video was directed by British director Julien Temple. It features Boy George on trial in a courtroom. It was filmed in filmed in Islington Town Hall Council Chamber in London.

 

Over the years, “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” has remained a beloved classic, enduring as one of Culture Club’s most enduring and recognizable songs. Its timeless appeal continues to resonate with audiences, making it a staple of 1980s playlists and a symbol of the era’s eclectic pop music landscape.

Culture Club – Do You Really Want To Hurt Me – Lyrics